गुज़रे ज़माने

वो सूरज कि पहली किरण का चमकना
हरी घास पे ओस का जगमगाना
वो चिड़िया के बच्चे का डाली पे गाना
वो तितली का फूलों को छूकर के जाना
वो मंज़र, वो सूरज, वो पल याद आये
वो गुज़रे ज़माने, वो फिर याद आये

वो गरमी में माथे से टपका पसीना
ठिठुरती हुई सर्दियों का महीना
वो बारिश के पानी का सडकों पे थमना
वो पतझड़ में पत्तों का शाखों से झड़ना
वो मौसम, वो पत्ते, वो दिन याद आये
वो गुज़रे ज़माने, वो फिर याद आये

वो यारों का मिलके ठहाके लगाना
मोहब्बत भरी दास्तानें सुनाना
वो लड़ना झगड़ना वो गाना बजाना
वो हँसते हुए सारे गम भूल जान
वो साथी, वो नग़मे, वो सब याद आये
वो गुज़रे ज़माने, वो फिर याद आये

Love....Love.....Love...........

Goodbye

I am feeling a whole lot better,
Than I was the other day,
Thank you for your help,
That is what I want to say,

I want you to know I am sorry,
I mean it from my heart,
For every stupid thing I did,
To make us drift apart,

I care about you very much,
You will always be a part of me,
I will make something of myself,
Now you just wait and see,

I will keep on dreaming,
That I meant something to you,
For this does give me comfort,
And it helps to get me through,

Remember all my good points,
If there are any that you know,
Please forget all the bad ones,
Before you turn away and go,

I know that you have left me,
I cannot promise not to cry,
But I do love you my friend,
I guess this is my last goodbye.

Relationships

Yesterday I came across a very interesting mail….it was a usual forward but it asked us an interesting question….Which is the most important thing which is required to build successful relationships? (Between a guy and a gal of course)

It had a few options, which are as follows:

1. Physical attractiveness
2. Regular interaction / talks
3. Trust
4. Destiny / luck
5. Money
6. Sexual intimacy
7. None of the above (why this option ?? , I got the answer this morning….and will tell at the end of this post)
   

These days people are thinking too much about relationships and how to make them successful….so am I after reading that mail….I analyzed the options and tried to figure out which one is the best....(or may be a combination of 2 or more)..

Physical attractiveness…….hmmmm…..its important to an extent…. (For some people nothing starts without this) but it is not the only thing that starts a relationship (again, between a guy and a gal of course).

Regular interaction / talks….ya its very important….if a guy or a girl is trying to ignore the other person, the probability of a successful relationship is very less…

Trust ………it builds up with time……no one starts trusting someone from day one….but it plays a major role once a relationship starts.

Destiny / Luck……may be……but I don’t know how much role it plays.

Money…..sometimes people go for a good relationship if the other person is earning enough money to lead a luxurious life….important for some people while it does not matter for others.

Sexual intimacy……..to an extent…but its not everything….

Now comes the final option…….None of the above……these days people leading corporate life are very busy and have too much work….some of them have no time to spend on building a successful relationship….this option is for them…..for more details read today’s (15^th march, 2007) Bangalore Times….;-)

So in my opinion Regular interaction / talks and trust have to be there to make a relationship work…..your comments are also welcome…