Love....Love.....Love...........

Goodbye

I am feeling a whole lot better,
Than I was the other day,
Thank you for your help,
That is what I want to say,

I want you to know I am sorry,
I mean it from my heart,
For every stupid thing I did,
To make us drift apart,

I care about you very much,
You will always be a part of me,
I will make something of myself,
Now you just wait and see,

I will keep on dreaming,
That I meant something to you,
For this does give me comfort,
And it helps to get me through,

Remember all my good points,
If there are any that you know,
Please forget all the bad ones,
Before you turn away and go,

I know that you have left me,
I cannot promise not to cry,
But I do love you my friend,
I guess this is my last goodbye.

Relationships

Yesterday I came across a very interesting mail….it was a usual forward but it asked us an interesting question….Which is the most important thing which is required to build successful relationships? (Between a guy and a gal of course)

It had a few options, which are as follows:

1. Physical attractiveness
2. Regular interaction / talks
3. Trust
4. Destiny / luck
5. Money
6. Sexual intimacy
7. None of the above (why this option ?? , I got the answer this morning….and will tell at the end of this post)
   

These days people are thinking too much about relationships and how to make them successful….so am I after reading that mail….I analyzed the options and tried to figure out which one is the best....(or may be a combination of 2 or more)..

Physical attractiveness…….hmmmm…..its important to an extent…. (For some people nothing starts without this) but it is not the only thing that starts a relationship (again, between a guy and a gal of course).

Regular interaction / talks….ya its very important….if a guy or a girl is trying to ignore the other person, the probability of a successful relationship is very less…

Trust ………it builds up with time……no one starts trusting someone from day one….but it plays a major role once a relationship starts.

Destiny / Luck……may be……but I don’t know how much role it plays.

Money…..sometimes people go for a good relationship if the other person is earning enough money to lead a luxurious life….important for some people while it does not matter for others.

Sexual intimacy……..to an extent…but its not everything….

Now comes the final option…….None of the above……these days people leading corporate life are very busy and have too much work….some of them have no time to spend on building a successful relationship….this option is for them…..for more details read today’s (15^th march, 2007) Bangalore Times….;-)

So in my opinion Regular interaction / talks and trust have to be there to make a relationship work…..your comments are also welcome…

Ya Rabba...(Salaam-E-Ishq)

pyaar hai ya saja, aai mere dil bata
tootata kyon nahi dard ka silsila
is pyaar mein hon kaise kaise imntihaan
ye pyaar likhe kaisi kaisi dastaan
ya rabba de de koi jaan bhi agar
dilbar pe ho na, dilbar pe ho na koi asar
ho ya rabba de de koi jaan bhi agar
dilbar pe ho na, dilbar pe ho na koi asar
pyaar hai ya saja, aai mere dil bata
tootata kyon nahi dard ka silsila

kaisa hai safar wafa ki manjil ka
na hai koi hal dilon ki mushkil ka
dhadkan dhadkan bikhri ranjishein
saansein saansein tooti bandishein
kahi to har lamha honton pe fariyaad hai
kisi ki duniya chaahat mein barbaad hai
ya rabba de de koi jaan bhi agar
dilbar pe ho na, dilbar pe ho na koi asar
ho ya rabba de de koi jaan bhi agar
dilbar pe ho na, dilbar pe ho na koi asar

koi na sune sisakati aanhon ko
koi na dhare tadapati baahon ko
aadhi aadhi puri khwaishein
tooti footi sab farmaaishein
kahin shak hain kahin nafrat ki deewaar hai
kahin jeet mein bhi shamil palpal haar hain
ya rabba de de koi jaan bhi agar
dilbar pe ho na, dilbar pe ho na koi asar
ho ya rabba de de koi jaan bhi agar
dilbar pe ho na, dilbar pe ho na koi asar
ho o o pyaar hai ya saja, aai mere dil bata
tootata kyon nahi dard ka silsila
ho o o o ho o o o
na poocho dard bandon se
hansi kaisi khushi kaisi
musibat sar pe rehati hain
kabhi kaisi kabhi kaisi
ho o o o... rabba, rabba ho o o ho
rabba ho o o, ho o ho rabba